Well.. i was not sure what was wrong with me in sch today.. but i feel that i have being repeating something that i've learned from Pst AR Bernard's seminar..

it is

"The amount of value u place smth in ur life will determine the amount of impact it will have in you life"

-Rev Dr A R Bernard-

So what does this mean???
It basically means that take for example a guy who have a girlfriend.. if that guy got a girlfriend.. and he places value in that relationship of his and on his girlfriend.. den bcoz you place high amount of value in your girlfriend.. den of course whatever she says or do to you will have a higher impact to you in your life compared to those that you didnt put value to like a stranger..

lets say like for example if your girlfriend says your attitude suck.. i'm sure you will surely definitely reflect urself straight.. But if a stranger in the streets just come to you and say your attitude suck.. i dont think you will bother bout that person at all and even thinks that he or she is crazy..

The main reason?? It is very simple.. it is because you add more value to that girlfriend of yours in your life compared to the stranger whom you didnt add value at all..

So how to add value to the thing you have in your life.. it's even much more simplier.. just look after it, care for it, show responsibility to it, love it etc etc..

See simple right???